Since then, she's been putting socks on her hands. She'll go into her sock drawer and take out pairs of socks to wear on her hands. Socks are her new favorite toys, and I'm finding them all over the house. I'll go to take her out of her carseat after the 11-minute drive to Oliver's school (or, really, any time she's in the car) and find that she has taken off her shoes and socks, and put her socks on her hands. It's an everyday occurrence!
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| Not the best photo, but this is typical. |
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Back in California, there was no clock at our pool. We'd give Oliver a five-minute warning until it was time to go, and pretty much just count down from there. One of us, usually Steve, would hold up a hand. "Five minutes!" Five fingers. Thumb down. "Four minutes!" And so on. The first time Steve did this, Oliver hadn't noticed all five fingers, so when Steve got down to just his pointer, Oliver asked for one extra minute, a "thumb minute" because he hadn't seen the thumb be used.
Now, he gets five minutes of snuggles before he's on his own at bedtime, plus one thumb minute.
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I took the kids with me to Trader Joe's, and they happened to have tiny carts. Now, the promise of a trip to Trader Joe's is, like, up there in excitement levels with a prospective Disneyland trip! (Not... that we'll be going to Disneyland anytime soon, so I'm glad TJ's is so awesome.)
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Most mornings, before we head out the door to school or wherever, we have to swing "one time". Usually, I stick each kid in a swing and push them while counting to 10 or 20. Lately, I push Oliver in Spanish and then Hazel in English. "Uno!" Push Oliver. "One!" Push Hazel. Much like Trader Joe's, the promise of "one swing" before getting into the car is usually enough to get shoes and coats on without much argument. Now, getting from the swing into the car is sometimes another story...
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| This day, Oliver did the pushing. |
I just love these kids.





































